Our accomplishments in the workplace often depend on how well we can communicate our needs and objectives to others. Truly effective communication requires an understanding of other people's styles as well as our own. Take this quiz from How to Become a Better Negotiator by James G. Patterson to determine your personal dominant communication style - Listener, Creator, Doer or Thinker - then read on for some insight into each style.
Communication Style Quiz: Print this page then read each phrase and check the word that best describes you. Then count up the check marks in each of the four columns and consult the Scoring Key to find determine your dominant style.
TOTALS
| I. |
Listener:_____ |
II. |
Creator:_____ |
III. |
Doer:_____ |
IV. |
Thinker:_____ |
Scoring Key 7 or more = Strong Preference 5-6 = Moderate Preference 0-2 = Low Preference Characteristics of Each Communication Style
I. Listener People oriented Believe there is more than one method to achieve the same results Demand a voice in decisions that affect them Place a high premium on relationships Can be slow decision makers Don't delegate well Seek security; don't take risks
Conflict: Mainly with Doers
Advice: Try to be more assertive. Focus less on relationships and more on tasks. Learn to make observations based on facts, not subjective judgments.
II. Creator Enthusiastic, excitement driven Like public speaking and attention May be too talkative Persuasive and optimistic Creative Good sense of humor Can be impulsive, make snap decisions Have problems following through with an idea
Conflict: Mainly with Thinkers
Advice: Slow down. Try to be less intense
III. Doer Pragmatic Assertive Results oriented Competitive Competent Very verbal Excellent problem solver Risk taker Can be arrogant and domineering Can be poor listener and impatient
Conflict: Mainly with Listeners
Advice: Slow down. Count to ten before responding. Learn to listen more. Work at showing your feelings, being more interested in relationships and being more open.
IV. Thinker Detail oriented Can be slow decision makers Like rules and predictability Lowest risk taker Analytical Conservative Can be rigid, overly serious and indecisive
Conflict: Mainly with Creators
Advice: Try to move faster, show less need for endless detail, be less rigid about following policies. Take more risks. Show more personal concern for others.
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